Terri Beauchamp, CRA, Psychic Medium, Animal Communicator,
Reiki Master, ZPoint, Meditation, Children's Author
You give up a lot of your life the moment you become a step mom. You didn't realize how much until you started down the path
You do so much
You support the family financially
You guide your step children to the best of your ability
You love your step children and your husband
You give up that extra personal time you thought you had to take the kids to an event or help them with their homework
You give up your weekends and sleep in/relax time to be with the family
You go out of your way to keep everyone happy
You do all this and you
Clean the house
Maybe walk the dog
BUT it feels like no one appreciates it
Everything you do is right to you and wrong to everyone else around you
You are saturated with endless advice from your parents to your husband (boyfriend) parents, sisters, brothers, even the kids
You’re not wrong, you just need to find your place
You’re not up to the task and the mother will never see you as good enough
Give her time, she's adjusting like you
Your constantly worrying about the welfare of the children
That's normal, it's mother's instinct but there is a better way to handle this
It seems like you constantly have to go to court to fix things and it's a constant emotional and financial battle
There is a way to handle this without feeling so burdened
You constantly complain and relive the same mindless chatter and every negative feeling each time you wake up
You deserve better than this
Your friends are getting a little tired of hearing about your life story and don't want to anymore
Complaining will only keep those negative feelings alive
Your friends who are moms don't sympathize with you
Unless you have been in a step mom's shoes, that's hard to understand
You know you’re doing it but you can't stop because you need to release the hurtful feelings inside
There is a way to let it go and I can help you
No one is listening
You can't wait to spend some time alone and rejuvenate
Yes you deserve it. And you can choose it
Your energy is drained
It does not have to be. There is a better way
You try to please everyone around you but you can't and it's never enough
You cannot help others until you help yourself first
You think there is no end to this and you wonder why you even started down this path in the first place
Because you are an angel with a heart of gold
You didn't expect this nor did you sign up for it
But you did and there is a way to be happy
You have not figured out what your role is
I can help you with that
Choose just this once to help yourself.
You need a solution, not a band aid fix. While support groups are great to find situations similar to yours, they don't fix the problem. Family counselling is helpful but you need something that resonates specifically to you. Each step mother and family unit is unique. Therefore so should be the solution.
My name is Terri Beauchamp and I have 42 years’ experience living in the step family environment. You deserve to live happy and I can show you how to do this while keeping your family and your sanity in check.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How is this different then a therapist?
Answer: I'm not a therapist, I'm a friend, a mentor and a certified holistic healer with 42 years of experience in a step family environment. With me, you don't get a counselor, you get a friend with ongoing support during our time together. I've been there and I understand what your going through. I know what its like to feel picked on, feeling segragated and left out, getting the wrong advice and stressed and worried about how everyone else feels except for myself.
2. What results can I expect to see?
Answer: There are a multitude of results that you will see in yourself after going through this program. Investing in yourself is one of the most important things you can do. Feeling empowered and having peace of mind is worth more than anything in this world. I only wish someone else had created a program like this for me years ago.
3. What am I paying for?
You are paying for your well being. You need to take care of yourself first before taking care of anyone else. That's a lesson I had to learn the hard way. Take my advice and get what you need NOW. Your not going to get a bunch of words and templates or videos of 'how to's. What you are going to get is an 11 week real time program with me that will be given at your pace with the ongoing support you need - specific to you. Each of us are different and our needs are different. This program is intended to be flexible enough to handle these different situations. And when were done, your going to have a memento of the good things to remind you of the path you have taken and the choice to be happy. Included in this program:
What are the benefits of this program?
I already know this about you:
What do I need from you?
I need your commitment. I need you to muster up some of that strength or confidence you've already got. Believe it or not you still have it and this program will just bring that back out again so you can see it for yourself. But you have to really want this and be dedicated to what I will share with you. There is a journey to follow and I will be there with you every step of the way.
Don't spend years trying to figure it all out like I did. There is more to life than worry and stress.
Give me a call at 416-725-7805. Let's chat and get to know each other. Alternatively you can send me an email if that is more comfortable for you email@example.com
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